To a certain extent, I suppose, the TAB to disabled thing means that, should people live long enough, they will all "end up" bound to their chairs; it is a destiny of sorts. One to which we voluntarily head? Well, that I dunno. But what if this were the general understanding of how these things work?
I can begin to imagine a world in which wheelchair use is not a problem; it is an accessible world, a place in which disability is simply diversity. I cannot imagine a world in which wheelchair bound is said with the pride and sense of accomplishment as college bound. A place in which the frailty of the body is as accepted/desired/normalized as the destination of a flight. Of course, we all end up in wheelchairs. That's just what happens.
Wow. well said. When reading ur words it's as if u say exactly what I sometimes think n feel inside.
ReplyDeleteYeah... what IF.
ReplyDeleteI just posted on the words wheelchair bound at my blog Bad Cripple. This is a term I despise.
ReplyDeleteMe too and a bunch of us just took the phrase right out of about 400 Wikipedia entries, replacing it with more neutral terminology. That and "confined to a wheelchair". Still arguing with people who reverted the changes and just don't get it.
ReplyDeleteOh, I LOVE your thought on this! Love Love Love--I do not take offense at wheeel chair bound, never have. And NOW I understand why (as I always have respected other's hatred of the word, I have no problem with handicapped either, I mean it has been used in Golf forever and it is used to level the playing field---is that so bad?). I think WE embrace or are threatened by certain words needlessly. My 102yr old aunt just HATED when she had to finally use a wheel chair at 99---the stigma is profound and it shouldn't be since it IS a natural course of events for most of us. Is a wheel chair such a horrible thing to be bound for or to? *I* don't think so. And it doesn't define me. That is on ME. Great post.
ReplyDeleteJust catching up on your blog ... I love the way you think. Thank you so much for all your words.
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